Mamafesto

We believe great parents are made, not born. We believe parenting is as challenging as it is joyous. We believe sippy cups might just be a necessary evil. We believe parenting has the steepest learning curve of any job. We believe in piggy backs, peekaboo and pillow fights. We believe in being afraid of the witching hour. We believe sometimes kids teach us more about ourselves than we wish to know. We believe good parents make the best friends. We believe sharing is hard whether you’re two or sixty two. We believe authentic connection with kids is a panacea for what ails them. We believe people are the best toys for kids. We believe oxytocin is better than heroin. We believe in naps. We believe in being skeptical of quick fixes. We believe in trusting your instincts but stocking your bookshelf. We believe in holding the line. We believe in saying Yes. We believe in letting girls be boys and boys be girls. We believe in hard science. We believe in parenting with a long-term plan. We believe in the well timed snack. We believe good parenting has powerful ripple effects.
Most of all, we believe in bringing a variety of proven, progressive parenting tools together in one place. We are parents, writers and educators who are passionate about helping parents (including ourselves) to create the best little people possible.

Please let us know what you think,
Julie Gamberg + Holly Kretschmar

Co-Sleeping

I’m committed to co-sleeping, but unsure of how to do it safely. I’d love some solid advice about products and gear for sleeping with my baby.
As you probably know, all of the safety guidelines recommend avoiding co-sleeping if you're under the influence...

Teethers

I’m creating a shower registry and I want to know about teethers. Are they a gimmick? Do babies really need teethers? Also, what are teething necklaces -- the kind that babies wear?
Your baby will need some kind of teethers because he will be teething for two or more years...

Bottles

I’m trying to fill out my baby shower registry and I’m confused about what kind of bottles to get. Do I even need a bottle? And what about sippy cups? Should I get a bottle that transitions to a sippy cup? Do I need a sippy cup? What did people do before sippy cups were invented? Help!
Great questions. First of all, not all babies will take the same types of bottles...

Car Seats

I'm at a complete loss as to what car seat to get. RF, FF, convertible, booster, infant – what does all this stuff mean? I just want the safest car seat there is. Please help!

Choosing a car seat is tough because it feels like a high stakes decision, and it’s hard to know who to trust. Here is an overview...

Mama's Favorites

Empathy, not Discipline

Connection Parenting - parenting through connection instead of coercion, through love instead of fear, by Pam Leo 


Unconditional Parenting
"5 Reasons to Stop Saying Good Job!" by Alfie Kohn
When a Parent’s Love Comes With Conditions
Carol Dweck
What Is 'Unconditionality'? - by Scott Noelle


The Value of Play
Playful Parenting, by Lawrence Cohen
The Art of Roughhousing, by DeBenedet and Cohen
Want to get your kids into college? Let them play - CNN.com ...